Under the federal Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, a debt collector is legally entitled to contact your employer to find out how to get in touch with you, assuming the debt collector does not have that information. However the collector cannot say why he wants to talk with you and cannot ask your employer for any other information about you. Therefore, it appears that by asking your employer for information about your wages that the collector has violated your legal rights.
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